a boy at the beach

Here's Salem very much enjoying himself at the beach at Capitola yesterday, one day after he turned 4 months and also our 2nd wedding anniversary. We had a great little family get-away & I'll share more pics later, but just wanted to put this one up....we are so blessed!

The month of visitors

Well, the month of June is here in full swing! It will be a busy month of visiting friends and family. We already got to visit with some old friends last Saturday and had a fun afternoon hangin' in Sonoma, and my sister and her husband get in later today and I can't wait!!! They are expecting a baby in December, so it will be so fun for them to get to know Salem. And we're really excited that he'll have a little cousin so close in age!

Seems like just yesterday I was at their wedding, and saying goodbye before they left for Korea, and now they're almost home and have a little bun in the oven. Seems like just yesterday that Joe and I got married and it will be 2 years already on the 9th....wow! More to come later about all our visitors and some fun museum visits we made this week!

Long time, no blog

Well I totally love this whole motherhood experience, but this little guy keeps me really BUSY! I can remember my mom telling stories of how she used to say that when I was a baby, and this older mother from her church with 5 or 6 kids just kind of knowingly smiled, and was like "you think you're busy now!"

I feel like I'm finally resurfacing and starting not to feel quite so behind. I was talking about this with my friend, Stacy the other day and we were remarking on how it's weird that some days are too busy to squeeze in a walk! I wonder how I did everything before when I worked 40 hours a week?? Oh well, with Mother's Day recently I heard on the news that if a full-time mom was paid a salary for all her work it would be well over a 6 digit figure....

Anyway, I really liked the idea that Shannon posted as a challenge on her blog- a photo a week of me and my baby. I totally didn't take the challenge, because I think I'd be doing pretty good if I remembered to post 1 a month! But, I had already been thinking about wanting to get more pics of me and Salem together even before she posted the challenge, so I've been trying to take more. Here are some from the past few weeks...and a few cute ones with Daddy too!

He is always so happy in the mornings! This was the week after Easter

when I came down with a terrible stomach bug....

Here we are on a picnic after church in mid-April

Making dolmas (rolled grape leaves) last Friday!

Salem loves listening to me practice! Sometimes I can't tell if he's watching my fingers or intently staring at the scroll on my instrument, but he really seems to enjoy the music. He intermittently laughs and coos along!

My 2 favorite guys in the world!

Salem and daddy in their Sunday best.

Happy Friday and....

Happy First Day of Spring!

Some good reads...

So yesterday while I was holding Salem and trying to put him down for a nap I came across some interesting blogs, that I thought I'd share. Yesterday the Ninth Annual Weblog Awards' winners were announced and it's pretty cool- the best blogs and runner ups in a bunch of categories. And then of course if you go to some of these you could spend countless hours checking out other blogs in their blog lists...so let me know if you come across something amazing. I've only had time to check out a few of them, but here are a few interesting reads I found-

http://goodamericanwife.blogspot.com/ - check out the post from March 6th, and please tell me if I ever act like her "aquaintafriend"... very funny, but I can already see the dangers in comparing your kids with other people's kids :)

http://camelsandchocolate.com/ - a travel blog with great photographs and really good post about SF, if you need ideas for giving tours to out of town friends or fun things to do yourself!

http://www.joythebaker.com/blog/- some totally delicious looking goodies and I liked her posts about wine country (March 9 & 10)... we still haven't been to check out Napa and Sonoma, so now I can't wait to go!

Chai Spiced Pancakes... interesting and yummy!

See the resemblance?

Salem at our 20 week ultrasound....


Salem at 4 and 1/2 weeks....

Our son, Salem

Wow...the past 4 and 1/2 weeks have flown by and are somewhat of a blur, but it is amazing to say that- "our son"! Joe and I (while missing good nights of sleep) are so loving being parents and are sooo thankful to God for our beautiful, healthy, precious baby boy. And he is 100% BOY- you should hear the way he grunts and burps! Since I haven't blogged at all since Salem was born, I'll try to catch up here with a few pictures and thoughts...maybe in a few posts as I think of things!

Salem Joseph Evans
born 5:45 am, 2/8/09
8 lb 1 oz, 20.5''

While it seems hard to believe Salem is almost 5 weeks old, on the other hand when I think that just a month and a half ago I was still working full-time at my old job in Sausalito, that kind of seems like a life time ago- being a mother has become my new identity.

Well first a little about his name. Salem means "peace" and is from the same Hebrew root as "shalom". It is found in the Bible in Genesis and Hebrews- Melchizedek the King of Salem who Abraham meets with and is a type of Christ in the OT, a priest without beginning or end of days. When it says he was the king of Salem (peace) it is referring to a city- probably the name for Jerusalem (the city of peace) before it was called by that name. Any way we both really liked this name from the beginning and although we considered a lot of names, this was the one we always kept coming back to and finally decided on. Besides the personal meaning the name has for us which I'll share below, I think that peace is such a huge part of the meaning of the gospel- Rom. 5:1, Eph. 2:14-15& 17, Col. 1:20.The name Joseph (besides being daddy's namesake and great biblical characters) means "He shall add" and God has blessed us with (added) peace in so many ways throughout the last year leading up to Salem's birth. About this time last year we had a miscarriage, and although the pregnancy was a surprise to us, it was a very difficult time to walk through. God, however, was with us and brought healing, strengthened our faith, taught us a lot, and gave us the desire to start a family. And now, less than a year later we have a sweet 1- month old baby boy in our arms. I was blessed with a great pregnancy (kinda crazy, but sometimes I miss being pregnant!) and although the labor was not how we prayed it would be (short and easy) God showed his grace in other ways (great doctor and hospital staff, healthy baby, good recovery for me, etc.) in denying that request. I labored at the hospital for over 20 hours and pushed for 4 hours, then in the end had a C-section. Not what we had planned, but God gave us peace and we had complete confidence in my doctor's decision (he said using forceps to pull him out was an option, but advised against it) and skill. Although I was disappointed, I realized that God was in control and he knew (even before time) the exact moment and manner that Salem would enter this world. Praise God! We are in awe of how he works and his grace in our lives and can't wait to see the plans he has in store for our son and our family.

Well here are a few more pictures (from the first few weeks...I need to keep snapping them and upload some new ones soon- he's really growing fast- weighed in at 10 lb. 13 oz. at his 1-month appointment on Tuesday!)... more thoughts on mothering in the days to come!

He has long, skinny feet like his daddy!

BIG YAWN...
You can tell they're going to be best buddies already :)
Playing around...
"I love my sleep!"
Salem and Dr. Wilner
It's time to SLEEP, sweet pea!
"I sure can't wait to play some football!"
I love this one (thanks, Shannon)... our thoughtful little boy!

Showers, maternity pics, & nesting!

Well things have been really busy lately, sadly leaving very little time for blogging...but here's an update and some pictures of what we've been up to lately. Two Saturdays ago (1/17) was a really busy, but fun day! We got an EARLY start (thanks alot, Shannon ;) to our day, having our maternity pictures taken by my friend & neighbor, Shannon who was joined by another friend and budding photographer on campus, Lindsay. We went to the Marin Art and Garden Center...it was a beautiful but chilly morning... 39 degrees when we got back to the car! Thanks girls, it was a blast and we love the pictures! You can check out more at Shannon's website!
Yep, we're due on Valentine's Day~ we know, love baby :)
Later that day, the ladies from our church, Calvary North Bay, threw us a shower. It was held at Toni's (super cute) house in San Rafael and was really fun. They had planned some games (I won the "guess that baby food" game) and had the place decorated really cute. The food was good and I ate way too much lemon cake and ice cream...yum!

Our baby boy's first stuffed animal!
Joe was set on attending even though he was the only guy except Toni's little boy, Luca. I was glad he was there, though! Maggie, Joe and I.
Brook, Tana, Sara, and Natalie
And on to next shower....The next Saturday, three dear friends- Brook, Liz, and Shannon threw me a shower on campus. It was at the Cunninghams' and a bunch of girls came- most of them either prego or new mamas! We had a great time...thanks so much, ladies!
Playing the diaper game...the melted chocolate bars really looked like poop! I was horrible at guessing, but my friend Erika got them all right!

Reann and Mara, Leah, me, Katie, Melissa, and Emily
Erika (also a mom-to-be come June), me and Brook
Liz's exquisite truffles! These things are the BOMB!
And finally, here's a sneak peak at the baby's room. This was actually about a week and a half ago, so we've done a little more...but you get the idea!
Joe has been working so hard on it...from painting the walls and washing all the bedding, to completely refinishing this little dresser (which is also our changing table)- thanks, Babe! And I think my "nesting urge" has kicked in too... been cleaning a bunch and wanting to do more in the nursery, but tomorrow's my last day at work... so hopefully I'll have time for that soon (and to rest)!
Well that's it for now...I go to the doctor later this afternoon, so we'll see what he has to say (if I've made any more progress)!

Truckee Trip!

Over New Year's weekend we were part of a youth ski trip with our church, Calvary North Bay to Truckee, CA (the coldest town in the whole state according to my friend, Lauren, at work). There were 15 people (16 counting baby boy Evans) who went- made up of youth, leaders, and some college- age kids. I went against the advice of my doctor...he was concerned since he's had several patients in the past who traveled around 34 weeks and then went into pre-term labor while they were out of town. Thankfully our son wasn't ready yet, and didn't get any ideas about surprising us early...now just watch him be late!

Here is a picture of the snow on the way up...this was before we got to the even colder temperatures where the snow was covering the trees. It was so beautiful! We got to see the snowflakes falling as we finished our drive, and fortunately we didn't even have to put on our chains.

The cabin we rented was super nice. It was actually the family's primary residence- more of a comfortable, stylishly decorated, good-sized house, than a cabin. We got to stay in the master bedroom (I guess because we were the only married folks and I'm a pregnant lady...or just because everybody was really nice!). Anyway, the bed was HUGE and there was a really beautiful view of the mountains outside the window.

Here's Johanna by the Christmas tree. It had to be the biggest, coolest Charlie Brown Christmas tree ever.

The snowman (Bob) the girls made the first night to welcome us home when we got back from renting equipment/ grocery shopping.

The skiers/snow-boarders getting ready for a big day on the slopes! And no, I didn't join them (although I secretly wished I could have), but Joe went skiing for the first time and (aside from a really sore behind) had a fantastic time!

Joe scraping all the ice off the windshield...quite an experience for us Southerners!

While everybody else went skiing, I got to hang out with 3 really sweet girls and we had a great day. We took it easy in the morning and spent some great time in the Word together. Then we went to this REALLY good little Mexican place (wish they had Mexican food that good here in Marin!) for lunch. After lunch we went treasure hunting in a couple little thrift stores, and then headed over to Donner Memorial State Park right on Donner lake- the place where the unfortunate Donner party spent the long winter of 1846, unable to cross the 22 ft. of snow blocking the mountain pass. There was a very interesting museum and video that we watched about their ordeal. It was hard for us to believe that only happened just over 150 years ago, and how things have changed. Before going back to the house, we finished off the afternoon stopping at a popular little sledding spot. It was fun, but COLD!

Here I am with Sarah W. and Kiti-

Kiti and her friend from school, Sarah-

Some really cute kids playing in a little snow fort-

Lexi, Sarah, Elisa, Johanna, and Joe C.


5 of the Chaimongkol 8! Joe, Kitima, Johanna, Tavi, and Ben-

No photo editing here...it was really 15 degrees the morning we left!

The whole gang!